national i love you day is october 14

say it the little way. send your partner “love you” on ilysm that day, and you both get a paper plane charm to hang on your polaroid.

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A gold chain laid in a heart on rose satin, with ilysm's love you button inside and the paper plane charm hanging from its point

one tap, one keepsake

1

pair up

one of you creates your space and shares an invite link or code. it takes a minute and needs no account.

2

send “love you”

on october 14, tap “love you”. it lands with your partner as a notification and on their widget.

3

hang the paper plane

your paper plane charm arrives right away, for both of you. hang it on your polaroid to remember the day.

little ways to say it today

i love you day isn’t about grand gestures. it’s about saying the thing out loud, or in one tap.

say it first thing

a “love you” before the day gets busy is the one they’ll carry around.

say why

name one small thing you love about them. specific beats big.

across the distance

long distance? check their local time and send it when they wake up.

say it back

when they send “love you”, send it back. in ilysm that’s a match.

questions about the day

when is national i love you day?

every year on october 14. in ilysm, the day follows each partner’s own clock, so long-distance couples each get their own october 14.

how do we get the paper plane charm?

send your partner the “love you” expression in ilysm on october 14. the moment either of you sends it, the paper plane charm is yours together, ready to hang on your polaroid.

is it free?

yes. pairing is free and “love you” is one of the free expressions, so you don’t need ilysm+ to get the charm.

do we both need the app?

yes. ilysm is for two iPhones paired together. pair today with an invite link or a six-character code, then send “love you”.

say it on october 14

pair for free, send “love you”, and keep the paper plane.

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