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pair up
one of you creates your space and shares an invite link or code. it takes a minute and needs no account.
sweetest day is october 17
tell your partner they’re sweet, in one tap. send “you’re so sweet” on ilysm that day and you both get a candy-shaped charm engraved 2026, while the app fills with falling sweets on both your phones.
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one tap, one sweet keepsake
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send “you’re so sweet”
on october 17 it’s the first pill under “tell your partner something”. your partner reads it in their own language.
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hang the 2026 charm
the candy-shaped charm arrives right away, for both of you. it’s only given on this day, so hang it on your polaroid to remember it.
small sweet things for the day
sweetest day began in cleveland in the early 1920s, with candy handed to people who were easy to forget. it still works best small.
say what made you say it
they warmed your side of the bed, or saved you the last bite. tell them that part.
bring one sweet
the day began with candy, so a single chocolate on their desk still counts.
across the distance
long distance? check their local time in ilysm and send it when they wake up.
send one back
when theirs arrives, send yours. the sweets fall on both phones.
questions about the day
when is sweetest day?
the third saturday of october. in 2026 that’s saturday, october 17. in ilysm the day follows each partner’s own clock, so long-distance couples each get their own october 17.
how do we get the 2026 charm?
open ilysm on october 17 and tap “you’re so sweet”, the first pill under “tell your partner something”. the moment either of you sends it, the sweetest day 2026 charm is yours together, ready to hang on your polaroid.
is it free?
yes. pairing is free and the “you’re so sweet” message is free on sweetest day, so you don’t need ilysm+ to get the charm.
can we get the charm later?
no. it’s engraved 2026, it’s never sold, and it’s only given on sweetest day 2026.
do we both need the app?
yes. ilysm is for two iPhones paired together. update to the latest version first: the sweetest day pill comes with it.
say it on october 17
pair for free, send “you’re so sweet”, and keep the 2026 charm.
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